The Way of the Universe

I live by a philosophy that there should always be a give and take.  In relationships, I always state that everything should be 50/50.  Never should it go one way or the other.  Some may feel to argue or disagree with that statement.  I believe that when you are in disharmony with the laws of the universe, you are in disharmony with yourself.  Why go against the laws of the universe when the laws of the universe reside within you?  In the universe, there is always an action and a reaction.  No matter what happens, in our world that we call planet Earth, everything has a give and take.  No matter how bad something is, we always gain from it.  No matter how cheated we are, much suffering we go through, faced with a terminal disease, there is always something gained from it!

Do you believe that there is no opposite in the world?  Or do you believe everything has opposites?  In the universe, everything is always in balance.  No matter how bad something maybe in your life, there is already something at the same magnitude that is good.  It is the same thing when it comes to giving vs receiving.  In relationships, we always end up sacrificing many different things.  One of the most precious things we sacrifice is our happiness.  I never understood why until recent days and I realized how it can harm one’s mind, body and soul.  In relationships, there will be one who gives and one who takes.  What creates harmony in a relationship is when the giving is equal to the receiving.  When one is giving too much, they are giving their happiness away.  In the end, they are only harming themselves and creating the consequences of anger, fear and pride.

On the other token, receiving and not giving as much will also create harm within someone at a specific time.  They will start to not appreciate the greatness that they have with them, take things for granted and be very demanding.  At the end of the day, it will create emptiness within the heart for when one receives too much.  They are only feeding their ego and not opening up their heart enough.  Eventually, the person who receives most of the time, will become an energy drainer and soak up the energy of the relationship.  I sometimes believe the one who takes more is someone who is truly unhappy and instead of dealing with their internal pain of unhappiness, they look for eternal happiness to fulfill the void within.

Does any of these two scenarios sound like you have experienced something like this before?  I have been on both ends of the stick with relationships and they are not the greatest feeling in the world.  But what I have realized is, when you are in harmony with give and take, it allows not only for the mind to open but the heart also.  It allows for the sacral chakra (Sex chakra) to open up and allow for creativity to be within the relationship.  Relationships are never perfectly balance and this is why mindfulness/present time consciousness within a relationship is essential for it to bloom like a gorgeous flower.  It is allowing yourself to let go of all fear and allowing TRUE, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, to flow within you and out through you.

In closing, I must say that regardless of where you are in a relationship and one person is the giver and the other is the receiver (no sexual pun intended), and damage is already begun or has been happening for quite some time, there is still an opportunity to regain the relationship to the status that you desire.  It takes much discipline but it can happen.  I cannot write on all the avenues and aspects that relate to quantum physics, laws of frequency and so forth within this blog, but the main concept I wanted to talk about is how to be in HARMONY with the UNIVERSE and do not get out of sync.  The Divine has created this program we call life, this dream, to learn from the external.  We learn from how the universe works.  We learn from the laws of the Earth and our own bodies.  These laws were put there for guidance and to help us reconnect to who we are and to return to our natural state.  The universe is perfect and chaotic at the same time.  But it is only chaotic to the EGO mind.  When you take the world Uni-Verse – it means ONE SONG.  Together as humanity, we create that ONE SONG.  We all play our part and going against these laws will create disharmony in the song.  Just one instrument out of tune, messes up the entire song.  Be in harmony with the Universe and with yourself.  Let your unique chord resonate into the heavens so you can reconnect oneself back to your GREATNESS.

Dr. Vic Manzo DC

http://www.HealthByDrVic.com

You Have Mind Disease…

Ever meet or see someone and say there is definitely something wrong with them?  Or attempt to understand one person’s logic to only come to the conclusion they have it all wrong or “messed” up?  In our society, we all have been given a mind disease.  We all have been infected by this parasite that leeks the two things we all seek: Love and Happiness.  You see, no matter what life situation you are experiencing, there is always 100% love being given to you and around you.  Some may see the world as life taking but others see it as life giving.  The UNIVERSE is always giving and nurturing.  It gives us EXACTLY what we desire and want.  That is why some may say, “Be careful of what you wish for/think of.”

A parasite of the mind all began when we were brought into this world.  It was passed down from our parents and family.  It has been programmed into our subconscious and this is the life we will fulfill.  This is why we see families have similar diseases.  If my mother and grandmother had cancer, I am going to end up with it also.  This is one of the biggest lies the medical world has been telling the public.  Think about this for a second.  If you have been given something that will continue to create the same poison that your mother has experienced her whole life that her mother had, don’t you think it will create the same circumstances for you as it did for them?  Now, if you see with the same eyes as your mother has, don’t you think you will manifest the same conditions as they did?

If you are wondering, how does one solve or remove the parasite within?  In order to do this, one must nurture the seeds of happiness, love and joy.  Don’t feed your fear.  In life, there are two emotions, Love and Fear.  Everything that is positive comes from love and everything that is negative comes from Fear.  Fear is what feeds your parasite and makes it stronger.  If you believe you are not good enough, the parasite will help you focus on things that will show, you are not good enough so you can continue to feed that fear.  The more you feed the parasite, the harder it becomes to get rid of.

Liberation of the mind is through removing the parasite from within.  What were your thoughts today?  Did they resemble love or fear?  What do you plan to change that will help shift your mind, body and soul towards LOVE and away from FEAR?  Feed the seeds of love within…  Here are a few basic, simple steps in order to help create the shift today!

 

1. Breathing – When you feel the emotions, negative thoughts, fear developing, take 3 minutes and do this

a. Close your eyes, and take deep breaths (mindful breaths) by expanding your stomach out when you breath in and contracting your stomach when you breath out.  The goal is to take 2 full breaths (1 in, 1 out) per minute.  It takes much time but this will develop with practice.  By doing this, you stop feeding the FEAR when it is brought to consciousness.

2. Focus and Attention: When an emotion stemmed from FEAR comes up, say this little affirmation that will help you embrace instead of resist it.

a. This pain/fear I am experiencing at this moment, may I embrace and accept my feelings.  I love my mind and may the love within my heart heal this past experience.

3.  Meditation:  I am a big advocate for meditation.  I practice at least 3-5 times per week.  On some weeks, it may be 2 times per day.  Meditation is a path that helps dive deep within.  What I find odd is many people are afraid to find out exactly who they are.  We are not afraid of the dark but the light within us.  We are afraid to accept the greatness of who we are.  When we have a painful experience or fear be brought to the present and the first two don’t work, take time to meditate and just focus on the emotion and let whatever flows into thought BE and not judge.  When you create a still mind, it creates a still body and that will allow for intuition to open.

Remember, all the situations we face in our life, stem from our childhood.  I always tell people that when you are facing a situation, argument with your wife/husband, girlfriend/boyfriend, friend, family, etc., that the issue at that present moment is actually an issue from when you were a child.  And from the wounded child created a wounded adult.  Until we heal our wounds, the disease of the mind will always exist in you.

The reason why many people don’t heal their wounds is because of the energy and effort it takes to heal them.  But like anything that you put energy into, healing these wounds will liberate your heart and mind and allow for all the love that you have within to emit into the world.  Imagine if everyone healed the emotional wounds within, how would the world be?  How much love would be expressed between one another?  To transform the world, we must TRANSFORM ourselves FIRST!  In order to transform ourselves, we see the entire world and react in an entirely different way.  Then from there, you allow the opportunity for others to heal just as you did!  Be the change you desire to see the world!

Abundance in LOVE and LIGHT!

Namaste

Dr. Victor Manzo Jr.

http://www.HealthByDrVic.com